More Loss of Control With Alcoholism
Saturday, December 13th, 2008You probably know someone in your life (now or in the past) that really needs to go to alcohol treatment. They probably deny they have a problem, say they could quit drinking any time they want to, and maybe portray themselves as someone who “goes with flow.” However, these could be signs of a person needing alcohol rehab. Loss of control with drinking is a big sign of a problem. Alcoholics become good at distracting others from their behaviors with nice promises and smooth explanations. Look past these comments if you have concern - believe your eyes, not your ears.
Multiple Failed Attempts To Quit or Cut Back Drug and Alcohol Use
An alcoholic may say they can quit anytime and that they don’t have a problem. However, a clear sign of alcoholism is the inability to actually quit. In fact when they say they’ve quit several times before (as proof that they can), it really show shows that they can’t maintain sobriety.
This also holds true for just cutting back to a more healthy social amount. If they have already gotten out of control with their habits, this is kind of like trying to get the cat back into the bag after it’s been used to being out. Very difficult to do alone. Alcoholics drink as a coping mechanism, so really, they don’t have much motivation to quit or reduce their drinking until they understand the full scope of their problem. In the short term, less drinking means they aren’t able to get as numb as they are used to.
It’s About Impulse Control
Someone says, “Hey, let’s go to the bars,” or “Have another one,” and the alcoholic has little ability to stop themselves. The impulse wins nearly every time because their skill at delaying gratification or using good judgment about drinking has been disabled.
It’s partly because one strong effect of alcohol in the body is a loss of impulse control. A person who normally only has one or two can have this effect for a short time without completely losing their ability to make good choices. Of course, anyone having even one drink needs to be smart about choosing to drive each and every time. But if their pattern is controlled social drinking, it is likely to stay that way over time.
Poor Judgement On When To Say When
An earlier post described how alcoholics have great difficulty tracking the amount they drink. They may say they’ve only had “a few” but they may have actually had several times that amount. Their tolerance is probably higher, so they may not report as much impairment as a true social drinker. However, that does not mean they are actually less impaired.
A person drinking socially and safely generally has a good sense about their physical sensations, knowing they should keep track, and understanding how their drinking fits into the bigger picture of their activities for the day. In other words, they most likely know if they are drinking socially before they get on the road, they will only be able to have a certain amount within a certain amount of time so they can drive safely. An alcoholic has no ability to do this.
Alcohol Rehab Can Get Life Back In Control
Of course, nobody is ever completely in control of their life. That’s pretty unrealistic. However, everyone has a great deal of control about their behaviors and choices. Losing control of the ability to manage alcohol use is destructive and sometimes deadly. Alcohol rehab can restore a person’s ability to monitor themselves and make good choices.










