Taking Responsibility for Your Actions During Crystal Meth Addiction Treatment
Monday, April 25th, 2011
It’s a common response among those in recovery for any drug, including crystal meth: “It’s not my fault!” Many patients believe that they shouldn’t be held accountable for their actions if they didn’t intend the outcome that resulted – though most absolutely believe that everyone else should, especially if they suffered due to someone else’s choices. Here are some common excuses that people use for bad decisions during crystal meth addiction treatment and tips on how to take responsibility gracefully.
Excuses: Avoiding Responsibility for Your Choices During Crystal Meth Addiction Recovery
Most people who make excuses for their behavior blame their own actions on the actions of another. They claim that someone provoked them into their poor response or brought it on themselves. “If she would have stopped nagging me, I wouldn’t have….” When a person isn’t responsible for the patient’s behavior, a common claim is that they were powerless due to an outside influence: “I had a bad day,” or “There’s never any money.”
Others justify their behavior by saying that it was necessary or that they had no other choice. “She hit me first,” or “There was nothing else I could do.” Other common justifications include minimizing the behavior itself or its results: “She’s overreacting. I barely touched her.” Or “It hardly ever happens. It’s not that big a deal.”
Tips to Take Responsibility for Your Actions During Crystal Meth Addiction Recovery
If any of those excuses sound familiar, there are actionable things you can do to start taking responsibility for your behavior. They include:
- Take care of yourself. If you are not tired, hungry or already upset about something else, you’ll be more clearheaded in moments of stress that may result in poor decisions.
- Build a strong support system. Feeling isolated or cornered is a common cause of acting out and making rash decisions. If you feel that you have a strong support system behind you, you will be more likely to remain calm and avoid bad behavior.
- Commit to making the necessary changes. You know that it’s not okay – how you’ve been behaving of the excuses you make for yourself. Make the commitment to yourself that you don’t want to be that kind of person any more, that integrity is your new goal.
- Choose positive relationships and environments in your life. If you feel pressured to be something you’re not or uncomfortable in certain situations or with certain people, seek out those who accept you the way you are and environments in which you feel strong and relaxed.
- No when to say ‘no.’ If you are continually doing things you don’t want to do, you will build up resentments that are liable to explode at the worst moment. Create boundaries and stick to them, giving yourself the room you need to take care of yourself.
What are your tips for taking responsibility for your actions? Do you have a story about how your actions almost threatened your crystal meth addiction recovery? Or how taking responsibility saved you from relapse?








