Drug Treatment for the Elderly: Having the Conversation

If someone you know seems to be showing unusual behavior in their old age, then it's a good idea to educate yourself about the warning signs of drug and alcohol abuse in the elderly. Memory loss, poor health, depression, hostility, avoidance of responsibilities, activities and other people can indicate a hidden problem.

The Canyon offers a variety of residential treatment services for individuals struggling with alcohol or drug abuse. Our competent professionals are experienced in helping individuals in every stage of life improve physical health, emotional stability, satisfaction, and fulfillment through sobriety and abstinence.

How to Start a Conversation with an Older Adult About Drug Treatment

Confrontations and accusations usually lead to defensiveness, so it's important to approach a person with respect and compassion. Concentrate on the negative effects that drugs or alcohol are having, reaffirm how much you're worried and concerned that there might be a problem, and encourage them to discuss their drinking habits with their doctor or specialist.

For example, "I've noticed you've been having some trouble getting around lately and there seems to be more empty bottles by he curb than normal. I know things have been different since your wife died, and I'm worried because it's been a while since you've shown interest in your favorite hobbies. Would you consider talking to your doctor about how you've been feeling?"

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Responses to Possible Reactions During A Talk With an Older Adult About Drug Treatment

"Nobody asked you and it's none of your business." - You can always table the conversation and come back to it another time if the person becomes angry.

"There's no cure for loneliness." - There is hope for depression. No one deserves to suffer from unbearable sadness all the time.

"The doctor said it's good for me." - A person's metabolism declines rapidly as they age. Any more than one drink a day is considered heavy drinking for people over age 65.

"I'm fine, I don't need any help." - Denial is rooted in shame. Remind them that lots of people struggle with alcohol abuse, and it doesn't mean you're a failure when you're ready to try living without it.

"It's just me now, anyway. I might as well enjoy what little time I have left." - Alcohol is a depressant that actually causes many emotional and physical ailments to materialize.

"I'm tired of all the doctors and pills. I just want to be left alone." - Counselors can be tremendously helpful in sorting out the more difficult problems in your life just by using talk therapy.

"I'm too old to change." - Even if you're 70, you still have decades left to enjoy your life and your great-grandchildren. Wouldn't you like to see them graduate from high school?

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Tips For Talking to the Elderly About Drug Treatment

• Choose a time to talk when the older person hasn't been drinking.
• Avoid criticism or negative comments about the other person's choices and condition.
• Focus on how much you value the other person. Remind them of all the good times you've experienced together and how you've both been there when the other is in need of help.
• Aim for a specific, straightforward discussion using "I" messages instead of inflammatory "you" statements.
• Stay away from the labels "alcoholic" or "drug addict" which can evoke a stereotypical image and unleash fierce denial based on those beliefs.

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Drug Treatment for the Elderly at The Canyon

If they're ready for help, the first thing to do is get them to talk to their doctor who can advise them on what type of drug treatment would be best for their situation. Hospitalization may be necessary depending on the severity of their symptoms, but most moderate drinkers can find relief by attending local Alcoholics Anonymous meetings.

If inpatient treatment is necessary, The Canyon offers a relaxing atmosphere from which to negotiate life's pressures. Our top-notch staff and excellent food promote a positive foundation for sobriety and longevity that sustains and rejuvenates long after alcohol rehab is complete.

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